TRUE LOVE:WHERE ARE YOU

True love is one such commodity which has escaped most of ours imagination.
When we were children,we found love stories boring and spiderman and superman exciting.When we grew a little more,we found girls to be pain in the brains and tongue wagging mind boggling creatures,and so we stuck to our muddy games and cricket,football etc.....
When we grew a little more,we realized that what the hell,something is either wrong with me or something is wrong with the girls. Why do I start feeling uncomfortable in the presence of the girls. And this uncomfortable thing is different,completely different,for we begin to like it,as our tongue goes dry and our body goes stiff.Then we realize that yes these girls are different.When we grow a little more,we find the girl next door has changed. Suddenly she has started to show attidude and looking different.Then you begin to realize that when you talk to her,you look less towards her face and elsewhere more.Something else starts looking more attractive,like a magnet she attracts you and you are not able to keep yourself off even if you want to.And then the first girl you meet and talk to her a little more than ususal and then you realize that you are missing her often. For some day she may miss school,and you think where has she gone for a month,you keep looking at her empty seat and imagining that she is there,as usual with her beautiful and innocent smile,but then suddenly the teacher himself wakes you up and you blush.

More often then not we have all passed these situations in our school life and few of them form couples and the dating starts and yo feel that this girl is the girl that means everything for you for your whole life......
OK wake up.... scene two the college.
Most of us our not lucky enough to be coupled up in school,you know parental pressure and stuff. but in college the scene completely starts becoming different. Even if you had a childhood girlfriend,chances are you might break up too soon than speculated.
But in college when you think love,you feel like laughing about it. Does it exist??? Well what you get to see around most of the time,that more than love,the relationship that is there is a compromise.What happened to the cupid there.Has he fallen off to sleep.Sex becomes a priority more than considered as important. and then scoreboard count starts. The race for the highest score. But where is love?
The most beautiful of the girls you see are most of the time hooked up with the biggest jackass of the batch.Some where else its the wealth equation that is important.Some where else for lack of opportunity it becomes an unknown deal between the girl and the guy as to be in a relationship for as long as they are in the college.Somewhere else the girls themselves are looking for increasing their scores.
But what has happened to love??? What the fuck is true love??? Where is it??
"Ye pyaar wyaar kucch na hota",exclaimed my friend one day."Why",I asked him."arre yaar,money is everything,if you have it then you have the girl",he replied. "So suppose I have more money then you then your girl is mine",I intriqued him. "Well.......but.....dekho.....haaan.....magar....oh leave it yaar when true love will come I will know it yaar",he tried to divert the subject. "oh yes,it will come to you like a matrimonial invitation card right",I said."You think too much yaar,leave it,by the way what is your score by now,I am nearing 7 by the way",he shot back with a winkle."oh yeah,and have you tried to ask the girl with whom you think you are smart enough to score that what her score is,it must be 70.She is smarter than you pal.A girl doesn't give anything for free.",I tried to enlighten him. "yaar Ravi,you talk to much.There is no such thing as virginity.And if her score is 70 then what does it matter,mine also will be 100 one day",he said with a treacherous smile."yeah asshole,AIDS is round the corner,watch out....",and I cut the thread off.
But it matter to me if the guy was right or wrong.. So does true love exist?The fact is ?I am still looking for an answer.... but here are some of the facts I found:
1. True love exists no doubt,but like a diamond,you won't find it on the road lying.You will have to venture out,search in the hearts of every woman you meet and your search has to be like the search of the pilgrim and then maybe you would be successful.
2.your own success does attract true love.Girls in a way are programmed in such a way that their likeness is directly proportional to the success of the guy.That is a priority.Everything else is important but that comes secondary.
3.Sometimes its gut feeling.You know when you see someone that yes she is the one. You have no reasons to justify your answer,because then you don't need any.But still go slow on this one too.
4.Don't wait for true love sitting in a chair with one hand in the other.Abegger gets alms through begging,but an emotion of love,you can only get it without work in the house of God.So for true love work hard.
5.Most of the time,the girl that is right for us is the reflection we have in our head which is quite similar to our own reflection as a person we see in the mirror.So whatever you are,chances are thats the kind of girl you would want.If you like the best of everything,so would be with the opposite sex.Girls too automatically judge themselves according to their own value they set of themselves and the guy they try to hit upon.So your desires are true.Pay heed to them.
6.Astrology works,chances are 2 out of every 3 girl you are attracted to match through your astrological sign.So read a little astrology.
7.Find true love.Trust me.One love is equal to the 100 useless scores that you would make and gain nothing solid at the end of the day.